i think the couples therapy has absolutely helped. we get along better now than we ever have and i actually enjoy my husband's company sometimes now instead of just feeling like he's a ball and chain.

incredibly, my husband has even agreed to start seeing a therapist on his own--something he flatly refused to do before we started couples therapy. he hasn't made an appointment yet, but i'm actually pretty sure he will.

definitely give it a try and let us know how it goes!