I'm confused what to do about an old friend/boyfriend. He was single and looking for me back in 2007 couldn't find me(I moved out of state and married). He remarried in 2009. I devorced and contacted him recently he is still married. He was miserable when we first spoke but is now so happy now that I found him. As am I. He wants to be with me but says he doesn't want to lose everything and have to start all over at our age. Which I can understand. Says us being together will happen "it will happen" We do have a special bond/connection that can not be put into words. example all of the years I was gone and he was looking for me He was in my dreams and I knew he was looking for me. In the past I have moved and not told him I was moving and he'd show up on my door.
Should I have a wait and see attitude? HE's told me it's our destiny and we need to write a book about our love story. I know he is sincere about how he feels about me. If his marrige ends (divorce) not due to me would our marrige be doomed? I am cross country from him. says he wants to come visit me. Please give me your honest opinion. Thanks.