Kaoilfhionn- Sounds like your kids are doing great.. AM sorry you went through so much with your sister. And yes, I agree, there are times when it is best to let "toxic" folks in our lives go.. We have to do what is best for us..

My sister and I have too much fun laughing over the phone to ever think of letting her go. Maybe she was having one of those "fussy" or moody days that upset me. Am sure I've upset her at times too....

I only posted what happend and that I was upset to "let it out" and not let it fester inside.. I've found when I let things build up inside it only makes me ill.. So sometimes just writing about it lets it go.. Then it doesn't grow into something bigger or worse.

We all have our days.. And yes, she upset me with what she said about AJ. I let it go and we are back to laughing for hours on the phone. She really is a good person and she is funny too.....OK, so she has an "attitude" at times... Can't hate her for that.. AM told I've got an "attitude" at times, too.....I love her.. I forgive her too. She really doesn't mean any harm.. What can I say.. Other than I do feel better that I wrote about it to let it gooooo..