Urriiadivme,

How do you say your name and what does it mean? Welcome to PC. Your post is interesting. Mind if I take a crack at translating it into plain English?

Social skills are part of natural selection, as if one lacks social skills one will not be as likely to have the opportunity to reproduce. Dependence is likewise necessary for survival up until a point, where it may exceed the parents' ability to provide and they may stop.

One might add that dependence could also become a hindrance to social skills and thus may decrease one's opportunity to pass along one's genes.

May I ask if you are here to work on issues with social skills and/or dependence? If you are, this is a good place. You will get better results if you write such that most of us can understand what you are saying though. Part of social skills involves making the effort to adapt to the way that a group does things, rather than entering a group and either being critical of them right off the bat or isolating yourself with a display of intellectualism or anything else that makes you stand out and/or excludes members of the group who are not accustomed to your way of communicating and interacting.

Rapunzel