(((((( I.Am.The.End )))))) Can I call you Iate as it’s hard to type the capitals and fullstops without making endless typos
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And I usually get over rejections after a year or two, but not this time (it's been 1 1/2 years and I don't feel like it's getting better).
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All I can think to say here is that maybe the connection you had in the first place was more intense and deeper than previous ones, and so it’s taking a lot longer to deal with it. But I’m sorry you’re still in pain
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learning how to not "telegraph" mistakes will allow you to perform and make mistakes without people realizing it
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What an interesting concept! I shall have to go away and think hard about this one and work out how to apply it – I love the psychology behind it, makes perfect sense. If you don’t draw attention to it, then chances are people won’t notice (this is great stuff for helping with potential paranoia!) I can see how you could practise it with performances (music for instance, playing a wrong note or even getting the timing out – unless someone listening knows the piece perfectly chances are they won’t hear the mistake – what a wonderfully positive notion
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I wonder how you get on applying it in people interactions? It must be much more difficult not to give away that you’ve made some sort of mistake or gaffe (or think you have) in those sorts of situations. I know you said it’s difficult, I just wondered if you’d had any success and could share some examples?
Thanks for continuing to post
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Torn