Having my Inlaws over tonight for dinner Its for my Mother in laws birthday . And also my brother in law is having heart problems( different one than had the heart attack a month and half ago) and he may be having surgery very soon. So I wanted us to get together . Its the first time they've been here for about 2 yrs. Mind you that isnt because WE havnet invited them. They just got a burr up their butts because I wont kiss theirs anymore. Sorry .. I am just getting uptight already .. I just know how this evening is going to go and my mother in law will make it all about her and how she's been mistreated all her life and her trials an tribulations.. IT gets soooo old. I try so hard to understand because she and I have so much in common in life experiences . She is bipolar and she was sexually abused too. But she doesnt think she needs therapy. I cannot dx.. and I dont know for sure.. but it almost seems sometimes that she may have a personality disorder also. I just have to be myself and do the best I can tonight and be hospitable and smile and BREATH. I know I want tonight to go good and I want it to be enjoyable ...especially for my husband. He is looking forward to this again. Thats for the 5 of us that will be sitting around the table lol. :P