((Big Mama) I know that I want people to ask first if they want to hug me. There are some men that I feel sick if they come near me. I remember yrs ago a guy who kept trying to hug me after I said no - about 3 times.Then he tried again in a meeting where we had to be quiet. A--H-le still makes me livid. I am nice & polite, but I stood up when someone was speaking and yelled at the guy - "Name-I TOLD YOU NOT TO TOUCH ME MANY TIMES - What are you DOING??? - I didn't care how I looked - He felt like a fool and never touched me again..Whew - triggered just by typing that & over 7 yrs ago