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Originally Posted by Leed
It does NOT have to mean affairs, adultery, but it could mean pornography.
What makes you think he cheated? It does NOT mean that he cheated. It could mean the women BEFORE you. And why couldn't it mean pornography? He said he "gratified himself" with these things, and it included pornography! There's nothing wrong with that is there? It's better than going to other women!
Try not to read things into this stuff. It's just not there.  God bless. Hugs, Lee |
But he already said pornography! And yes there is something wrong with pornography if you have an addiction to it.....which my husband does. I seriously doubt that "lots of women" is referring to the 3 people he told me had had sex with before I knew him 14 years ago! I think his porn addiction has escalated into paying escorts/hookers for sex! He just wrote this less than a year ago when he was going to 12 step for porn addiction which he quit and dropped out of. Plus I just caught him masturbating to pornograhy at work at his desk during open hours! Do you see why I think he's cheating?? I think it is there and I will do whatever it takes to find out the truth! I could have stds from him if this is true!