urock,

I believe you two have a connection but he is married and as a married woman I would suggest you no longer contact him. If his marriage is destined to end in divorce let it not be because you interfered. If he loves you he should be honest with his wife instead of leading her on... This is a difficult situation...and I want you to know I am NOT judging you. you sound sincere in your concerns and you made your feelings clear to him. He now has a choice to make...let that choice be his but don't wait around, in the mean time go on with your life. If it's meant to be it will happen.