I'm 63 yrs old. My oldest sister is 7 yrs older than me -- and she has TORMENTED me since my earliest memory. And I mean TORMENTED. There were times when she physically beat me up. Even when I was very small. My parents never believed me, because she did it when they weren't home, or couldn't see or hear me.

She left when I was 12 yrs old -- since then she has tormented me by mail. She started out nice -- so i thought she had changed. I was too young to know the psychological "tricks" she was using on me. See, she's a brilliant person, with a genius mentality. So she knew what she was doing.

I didn't figure things out until I got into therapy -- and by then I was seriously "sick." I have harbored alot of resentment against her since.

She continues to torment me -- when she comes home, she does the same things, even in front of my family -- and she TRIED to abuse my daughter, but my daughter was on to her! LOL

I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE GOING THRU. And there were times I wanted to kill my sister too, but where would that get me? In prison, that's where. So I have just plain cut off all contact with her -- and i TOLD her to just plain leave me alone because of what she's done to me. And I wrote her a letter telling her this!!

Perhaps if you wrote YOUR sister a letter telling her you're cutting off ALL contact with her. i hope she doesn't live in the same house! if she does, then avoid her at all costs. Tell your parents that she torments you. Write down ALL the things she does to you, with the date and time. DON'T do anything back to her even tho you want to. You must make sure the blame is ALL HERS. Do this for at least a week or two or more if you can stand it.
I wish you the very best sweetie. I know it's awful. God bless and please take care of YOU. Hugs, Lee