Friends are those who are there when your doing good or when doing bad, and I mean you can't talk about your friends not unless they know you are, just be straight up and honest about what your saying but if your saying crucial things you can't blame them for not wanting to be around you any more, in other words you get what you give.
I mean it sucks being one and having no one to socialize with, meeting people doesn't mean telling them ur secrets just live the moment that's all!!