I am a new member, and just read your post. If you are interested in a step by step organizing program you can check out ADD Audio Coach. I am an adult with ADD, and used to be extremely disorganized. I spent a long time and designed a system for organizing. We put the system together to help others having the same difficulty. Take a look, maybe it would be useful to you.
Thanks,
Linda
addaudiocoach.com

Linda Hillger
lifelifters.com