the thing about letting ehr know you love and are there for her: hows about a tiny picture of you in a tiny locket for her to hold on to or something like that? something of you she can hold, literally, on to when things get bad. maybe with your phone number in there too.....

i was a suicidal kid. every now and then 1 person would come along and their kindness would keep me going. it was like one person would be so kind to me it would last and last cause i would replay the event over and over and over in my head, clinging to the spark goodness. one person, even at a distance, can do a heck of a lot to comfort the suffering person. tiny little things sink in very deep.