You want a divorce and you also want to be a stay at home mom. It is going to be pretty hard to stay at home with your kids once you are single. You'll be working to help support your children. If at all possible, can you put the divorce on hold for a year or so? Get the baby born and off to a good start. In the meantime, think of the future and what you will need to do to get a good job, since you are giving up your business. Shore up job skills, if necessary. Build up your job search network.

Also, you can do a divorce in a way that doesn't have a lot of negative impact on the kids. For that, you will need to be mature and have a husband who is on board with a civil and cooperative approach. I am really proud of the way my ex-husband and I did our divorce and like to give others the message that divorce need not be awful.

Good luck, fedup. My ex-husband had a porn problem too, and it is a relief not to be around that anymore.