Hi there I am new also to this. But I think so far I am glad that I did this and I think it will help you also. I know how your feeling my husband is the same way. He works alot to and when I do try and talk with him it's hard beause he does try to understand. I really don't have anyone else to talk with but my mom sometimes and that does not work all the time. But if you ever need to talk here is my email Eeyore52568@msn.com take care. And I am here if you need to share.