((Hugs)) I'm sorry your feeling like this, and sorry there making you feel this way.

I have some advice but it's real childish, and it's the only way I can get people to listen to me. When things seem this way.

An that is day NOTHING. That's right nothing at all.

When you bf asks how you are just look. When your daughter shouts for her on way ignore her.

They will soon start wondering and feel the frustration you do when they do what they do it to you.

Once they have reached that point calmly explain.. Was that annoying for you? "Yeah" well that's how you make me feel every time I open my mouth.

So unless I start to be listened to fairly then this is how it will be!!

Things won't change over night, but they sure will remember how it feels.

BPD or not, no one likes to have there feelings or voice ignored. Unfortunately for us it's just hurts a great deal more.

((Hugs)) again hope it helps.