well, if it helps - and it might, people don't really put the "whole" story up on facebook.

I mean no one is going to put the "this is the day I was so depressed I couldn't get out of bed" pix up on their page.

Or the video of the hubby drunk and yelling.

I hear you though about the happy. There is one family that I'm friends with that WOWSA, puts my life to shame.