I have been divorced for 2 years. I I have two adult children, both in their early twenties. I left my marriage for reasons other than adultery. My children are living with their father in our marital home while they finish school. At first both of my children were very angry with me. My son, the oldest, has forgiven me and we have a pretty good relationship. My daughter is still angry with me. She rarely visits or has any contact with me unless I initiate it. I am currently in a relationship and have been for about a year. Due to financial reasons, I moved in with him about months ago. My problem is with my daughter. She refuses to acknowledge my boyfriend. She won't come to our house. Currently she is struggling with personal issues and I want to help her through this. I have reached out to her to offer my support but she continues to reject me. I feel like I have failed her.
I feel like if I want a relationship with my children I will have to go back to my ex, something I do not want to do.
Should I leave my current relationship? Again, something I don't want to do.
Anyone going through this too? What do I do.
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