I've invited them over many times. for my husband. Because I love him and because I want him to be happy. This is his family and I care about him and I care about them. They are just overbearing and overwhelming at times.

And to your Surprised comment.. I guess I am a glutton for rejection.. been used to it .

I've learned one thing.. I am not going to ask her personnaly first anymore if she wants to come here .. I am asking the rest of the family first if they want to come here . That way it doesnt really give her a choice. Because if it was up to everyone else.. They would come. She is controlling them. Thats how she is. Her moods everything control everyone else. .. not gonna go that way here anymore!