Hm, I hope I can be of some help though I've never experienced such a dream myself. First of all I find it exceptional that you remember your childhood dreams and also so vividly.
I think your interpretation already hits the nail on its head as the inability to connect to others is very striking. Btw, how did it feel not being able to play with the ignorant guys?
The problem for you starts when the invisible force enters the dream. Before that life was lonely but peaceful. I see the force not just negatively though of course it is threatening. The good side is that it helps you to get into further contact with the others. It's life and death, and they cannot ignore you again. Facing this force together should also increase the chance of getting closer to the others as in times of trouble we are supposed to reach out our hands to help. And in 50% of the cases your wish was fulfilled though reluctantly. So this force was a good force as it helped you to be seen by the others in 50% of the cases.

I think this dream showed that you felt unable to draw attention to yourself as a kid. Something every child needs in particular from the parents. In cooperation with the force you were able to stir up those usually unperturbed by your presence.

Hope this doesn't sound too absurd and helps to shed some light on the dream.