wow , um well you have been with your current girl for almost
what 5 years ?
however the heart goes where it goes and you can't control that.
I have never experienced anything like this
but i would talk to the NEW girl and ask
what she wants in a relationship
you said you like dhow your gf now lets u hang with friends etc , will the new girl allow that or be some what controlling ?
and if it is a go and
she means what she says and you like the answers
really think about if it is worth it to move to a different COUNTRY lol .
and if you wont feel bad at all when you do , how this will affect you job wise family etc. leaving ur current girl ??
then after that i would confront your gf now
and say , " we need to talk i met someone else "