I think you'd better really THINK about this. ARe you really willing to give up your COUNTRY and your current girlfriend after these 5 years, just for a girl that you THINK is your "dreamgirl?" Aren't you being a little immature?

Do you really think this feeling is going to last? These kind of feelings never do. They're almost like a fantasy. It never turns out like the "dream" you're thinking of. Most likely she won't have the same ideals as you do. She won't have the same goals, or perhaps won't even feel as strongly about you as you do for her.

What about your family & friends? Do you think they're going to approve, or don't you care? Are looks and sex THAT important to you? Looks and sex don't last forever, you know.

Personally, I think you should hang onto your 5 yr relationship. Just that's just MY opinion. Afterall, she's stood by you thru all kinds of ups & downs. But -- it's your life. Best of luck. Lee