I can really relate to you. (the parent thing, and how your little one, though you love so much, can cause the nails on the chalkboard feeling).

I think it is wonderful that your husband is being so supportive, and trying to understand you! That will be very helpful to you in the long run, I think.

I am SO sorry I don't have any advice. (still trying to sort out things too, not in the greatest place to give any right now). BUT I wanted you to know that you can post anytime, and welcome you to PC.

There are a lot of people with great advice here, and know you aren't alone!