Well at this point I'm just adding my voice to the list because everyone here said it so well. I think it is good to have a place to go when we are hurt as long as we also know to try to get out of it, even a little bit, when we are ready.
I am so happy for a place like this that gives us a safe "stepstone" filled with caring people, to buffer our travels between our "safe spots" and the "real world".
Mean people are mean

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