oh des.

I am sad to see you are going through this. What a shame.

I know the feeling of scrambling around to make ends meet right now, and have for a while. Though, with kids I can imagine it is all the more pressing.

I agree with everything said previously. If you need to, go to a shelter. Judge what is best for you and your children and where you will be able to make the most progress. I know sometimes its not as easy as just picking up and leaving, and thats not a decision anyone can make for you.