Did you sign a contract concerning the money? If not, kick him to the curb and tell him you'll pay him back as able. You go through enough sh**t, Blue. You don't need to provide a weekly bunk buddy for this guy. I didn't like him the minute you said that he has no use for your kids.
If I am being too pushy about this, Blue, I'm sorry. Just tell me to mind my own business. I want only good things for you and your family. I hope that 2013 is your year, Blue!
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