Nomad17- I didn't see your edit when I replied. That is a scary thing to think someone is out to get you. These things never happen at convenient times to reach t do they???! New Year's Eve... Maybe you should include all that in what you're writing to t. If you feel unsafe (even though it sounds like there is nothing physically in your environment that will harm you) is there a place where you can lock the door to make yourself feel better? Your room with phone and/or computer, dog?