hamster you are correct. We have been married 18 years. And have 3 kids. If there were no kids in the picture and I had a relatively escape believe me I would run.

Dear OP, run, turn and go the other way quickly as possible or before you know it you will be where I am and where I have been and let me tell you it ain't pretty or fun. It is a daily hell at times. If I knew what I was getting myself into 18 years and saw the sings I was to in love to see at the time I should have not stayed a min longer.