That's why you used the word demands in the subject line, isn't it?

The suggestions I have made - L-arginine, ginseng, and exercise - affect your hormone levels. They help to ensure that you have the resources required to increase your libido.

It may be just that you feel conflicted - you'd rather be doing something else with your time and attention. If you do feel conflicted, then examining the reasons will help more than raising your libido. Otherwise you could end up feeling even more conflicted.