Sometimes I think they just dont know what to say, and feel helpless when they cant find a way to help you..Im sure he's frusterated..maybe it would help to explaine to him not to take it personal,this is a disorder, not the flu..be patient,got to counsiling with you..If my Big Bad Biker Man goes with me to theropy, because he wants to undertsand and help me,I cant imagine any man not having the love and courage enough to do it for u.