fayerody,

there are so many things we wanted to write here. the brain does not cooperate on the schedule we want. with that said we'll offer up that we've not been like peas in a pod, nor joined at the brain. we've had differences and words. we've worked through them and we're both stronger for it.

doesn't mean it was easy. doesn't mean that there weren't challenging times. just means that you've got the grit of the very essence of a friend.

thank you for the time and energy you donated here as an active member. you've helped more than you can ever imagine by the legacy of your posts. the widsom offered up freely. the tongue not bitten when saying something less than sugar coated sweetness. the cold hard truth isn't easy for anyone but you made it more palatable than most could on their best day in standard health.....and let's not forget that most of us are here due to disease/disorder so imagine you on your best day....look out world!!!

our continued good thoughts for you and B and your future. but more for today. as that is all any of us can really expect....one day.

and a day at a time is how we'll survive w/o your witty, kind and often hilarious insights around here.

much love as always.

much gratitude for pushing the limits you were able to push. for stretching the thinking the way you did. for being yourself. ALWAYS!

mucho respect m'lady.