Sig my H does the same thing as your wife then. It drives me crazy. How can you say I love you in one sentence and so something so totally unloving the next, get angry and play silent treatment. The silent treatment is an in your face attack that says you are not worth me even talking to. I get that to much. I know I should enjoy the fact that my H is not spouting off bull c*** and be happy he's quiet but for some dumb reason I'm not.

Who's next, what triggers you?