Hi

The term that came to mind as I was reading your post was 'passive aggressive'. This happens when someone is angry with you but instead of getting angry with you and talking to you, they act passively, by getting angry with you indirectly. Not giving you a card could be an example of this. Have you had marital counselling? Do you talk to him to find out why he doesn't give you gifts/cards?? Feel free to pm me.