A little Food for Thought..... on PORN - LOOKING - LUSTING

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Truth is.... most women cannot and will not comprehend why a man would choose or risk such damage to their relationship for a mere look (and lets admit it is LUSTING) no matter how you throw the dice.... to some women looking with the intend to receive sexual pleasure is the same thing as cheating.

A woman whose husband does not control his looking and lusting will often start to feel like a failure, both as a wife and a female.... for her beauty can no longer measure up to what her husband wants - his eyes speak volumes.... so she had no choice but to doubt.
She wants to be found worthy in his eyes, she wants to be his BEAUTY (his only beauty).

While some women do not mind if their husbands are truly appreciating beauty (as in "What a Beautiful Girl" and nothing else) they will experience excruciating pain if their man looks long, lingers on, and lust after another attractive female. Their TRUST in their man's love gets badly shaken.... shaking turns to breaking when the other woman or image obviously aims to provoke lust, hence why many females hate PORN.

Let's face it.... men cannot control what a woman will show up in at a store or on the street, but with porn it is a conscious choice. When a man turns to porn no matter how infrequent, it sends a clear message to his wife (or gf) that she is inadequate. It says that no matter how hard she tries she cannot satisfy him sexually.... so why should she bother trying? - she may even feel as though he wants or loves the other woman / image over her.
Even women who do not see the power of porn or has become desensitized to its sight.... can and will at times find the experience of her man looking sexually at other women / images excruciating to both her heart & her trust in him.

The fact is for all men this is an area in their life and relationship were there really has to be zero tolerance, and obviously that applies to PORN, but it also includes.... lingering glances and lustful thoughts of another. Men injure their wives (and gf) when they look (as to lust or to receive sexual pleasure).
REMEMBER: You vowed to look in and at only HER, when you married. When you look you shatter your ability to reflect her value and beauty back to her.... YOU BREAK HER TRUST.

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LoVe,
Rhapsody -

.... Spoken for every woman ever in love, from personal experience & broken trust created by his eyes.