Desirae, I am so sorry for all that you are having to endure. I do feel that it takes a lot of courage to take the standpoint that you have with your husband and to refuse to accept his abuse any longer. Especially as you have to babies and financial worries.

My heart goes out to you, but I also admire your strength.

I agree with everyone on the support issue. Your husband will have no choice.

Sending you healing, soothing and strengthening thoughts!

Please lean on us. As much as you want and need to.