im 18 who recently stopped SI. but I tried turning to my parents for help but all they did was threaten to send me to the hospital for a week again. all I can say is don't do that, if she comes to you about her self harm don't force her to the hospital that will ruin her trust as it did mine. all you can do is be their for her and show her that you will always be their. take her to the movies spend time with her. do what you need to get her trust so she can tell you what bothering her