Outoftune I hate it when someone says something about fat. My H says lots of rude things about some large folks wk know. I am larger then them for the most part. He calls them all kind of ugly names. If he thinks that about others then what does he think of me.

I tell my H it is not a choice. Kids say I want to be a fire fighter when I frow up, or I want to be a singer. So one says I want to be "Fat". It is not a goal or choice. It is something you get and deal with the best you can. Just like mental illness. No one says I want to be bipolar when I grow up. It finds you and you deal with it the best you can.