I would urge you to tell his dr. Yes he has to learn, but we know better than anyone that there is no learning when all your actions make sense and every decision is based on some magical epiphany not to be ignored. The saying ''hindsight is always 20/20'' rings true. His dr is someone he may listen to without the drama that ensues when a family member tries to 'show you the light'... You are being a good mother (care to give mine some tips?) lol, she's a great mom, but useless in the bipolar arena