Well, that's definitely the other side of the discussion and congratulations on being the exception to the "sensitive men of the new millennium" movement.

I suppose in general, this question depends on if you're having sex or making love. To me, casual sex isn't much more than using her body to masturbate and her orgasm is of no consequence. If you really care for her though, you want her to get the maximum pleasure she can.

BTW, even if you're in it for just your own great orgasm, there isn't one better than holding off as long as you can, and staring into her begging eyes and her grimacing face as her whole body trembles and her pulsating vagina and thrusting hips squeeze you over the edge into your own orgasm... Yeah. Hers is important.

Damn, now I need a cigarette!