I hear you Mike, this is a real concern. I am not involved in a divorce but I am involved in a lawsuit and I didn't include psychological damage because I didn't want my private history made public.
I also have not made an attempt to report my lawyer to the board for his errors in handling my case because my attorney has a copy of my history. He got it before I knew what was in it. I feel he can use my PTSD diagnosis against me, paint me crazy etc. so I have been stuck dealing with and 80 year old forgetful, self absorbed attorney that has been making "mistakes" and is totally the wrong match for me to personally deal with.
What I can say to you Mike, is if you do have a history of challenges and your wife can prove you have not gotten any help, it is worse than if you have noticed whatever shortcomings you have and are taking the steps to "self improve".
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