okay so personally i think you did the right thing by returning the gift back .
some say dont play thre "game" the other one is playing but
some people need to have their own medicine to understand how hurtful it is .
The only thing i would have done differently is
say why i ddint give him the gift .
he may be doing this on purpose to you but
girl stand up !
- this is your man .. ,YOUR HUBSTER we are talking about -
you are his wife and he is doing a BIG no no .
lay in bed tonight ND
calmly say
" i took your christmas gift back because i never got one from you and that hurt me inside . I have told you how it made me feel before but the msg never seemed to come through . I wanted you to realize what was happening "
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if he responds with something negative i wouldnt even bother with replying.
That is his own issues reacting . not you .
just say .
" im your wife , i love you "
go to bed after .
with all of my misunderstanding i
always say them in bed before sleep when the mood is mellow aND CAlM . My bf works in high tech industry so thats really the only time he is open to hearing things .
and if he responds with something negative i just say i love you and im tired , good ngiht
next morning he doesnt mention last nigth but acts different . you cant ry it