remember at one point somethings were good, we're getting older and have to roll with the changes with the help of each other i sound like a journey song, and actually how I get through my bad days i put music on and actually listen to the words but see the words differently than before ,I know I learned something which makes me happy and I enjoy getting older and wiser that is what is happening to me now. You can make a new start and do things and see things differently