I think everybody has some bad coping habits. Everybody has some quirks that are annoying, yet it's character flaw, not some brain-defect. Hence everybody can do something for themselves in this regard.

But it's not politicaly correct thing to say. I wonder if wifes of bipolar husbands believe that once their loved ones get their meds right, they will stop leaving the toilet seat up (okay, kidding here, but you get my point).