(((((((((GYPSY))))))))))))) oh i'm soooo vry sory. big hugs, ttruth. bless both yor harts. what a difficlt rode. i'm glad you came to post, i no it prolly helps jus to 'get it all outt'.
no, you are not a 'miraccl-wrrker'....you are simply a frend. a person. whn her brothr and son say thos thngs, mabe you can say that, and sugest thay help you? you dont evn hav to ssay anythng negativ about the husbnd tto do tthis, jus say that its alot for anybody tto handl alone and that mabe evn SHE wood like her famly around mor at a ttime like tthis. tthat sownds tactful, huh. oh bbless yor hart. she is reely lucky to hav ya, girl! ttruth.

you go ahed and cry! let it out, it is vvry clensing and you will feel bettr and sstrongr and mor able to deal wth things aftrwrrd. cry and then wipe yor eyes and stand up and get bbak 'to it'. and alwways rmembr.......you can only do what you ccan do. thatts it. whn it gets too mcch, dont wate to get tto the pointt of brakng down.......thats not heltthy for YOU OR HER. take yorsself out of tthe situashun BFOR IT GETS THAT BBAD. ok? take a breether, go ffor a walk, take som time out. i no its tuff. i had to do that whn i wwas takng care of my dad wth COPD.

rmembr we are heer ffor you.
hugs!
sara