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Originally Posted by IcryWhoAmI
I don't know if it is that, I think if I was given an opportunity to take some sort of treatment, I would take it, although I would be wary at first.
It's just when certain advice comes from people who don't seem to understand even the smallest part. Like when they say things like 'You just need to get out more' or to 'try something new/different'. It doesn't really help me much, more infuriates me than anything. I mean, I think it's just my stubbornness mostly that makes me push people away rather than a resistance. Although stubbornness in it's own form is a kind of resistance, no?
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Do you have any ideas about what kind of treatment you would like? Sometimes if you dont have any idea what you want its difficult for people to take an initial stab at guessing what might help?
People can be full of clever sounding one liners and yes its infuriating when they get banded around - even medical professionals will say silly things. Think about what is really bothering you and try and communicate it. Write it down or draw a diagram!
The problem is exactly as you said - stubborness is a form of resistance - theres a thin line between objecting with good cause and resistance. It may not work in your favour.
Sorry to end on a bum note. But im no pianist!