OneAndMany asked me if i had thot abbout it and ffrankly i hadn't but........

just a littl bit ago, my 22-yr old son vrry calmly came up to me and askd what i thot if he took our 19-yr old son out to tthe bak yard and 'showed him som skills and how tto use tthem'.....thay hav botth ben in diffrnt martl art classes for awhile. jus NOT tgethr. he had lots of reesons WHY it wood be a good iddea. uhhhhh NO. its NOT. caus we alredy hav prroblms wth him hittng WAAAY too hard, and the othr wway arownd, the 19 yr old doing tthe same bak. and ffrankly its rediculus. the 2 oldest ones wating to ambush eechothr and being tthis way.
we hav told tthem to, omg, i can't beleev we hav to say tthis to peepl THER AGE.....KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YORSELVS. like ovrsizd 4-yr olds. then whn i told the 22yr old, no it was NOT a good idea, he freekd out agen. 'we are NOT goingg to talk abot tths!" he sed to ME. are ya kiddin me? no we are not. caus i alredy sed NO. he startd gettng wrrse, and i simply sed 'walk away', while in tthe bak of my hed OneAndMany's wrrds rang thru my hed, so i actuly wachd what he sed and did wtth an open mind.

i need help. and i'm gona call. a wwhole famly is being held hosttage to this behavvior. i need to starrt tthe ball rolling.

thank you ffor helpng me. sevrral peepl hav postd, tellng me i needed ttherpy tto deal. rhapsdy, sevral othrs.........thank you all.

pleez help me as i try to gatthr curage to do tthis.

sara