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Old Jan 05, 2013, 02:23 AM
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Originally Posted by Bill3 View Post
In family therapy there is the term "the named patient". This is the family member who is perceived within the family to be the cause of whatever problems the family is experiencing.

A major purpose of family therapy is to bring to awareness the fact that many problems are family problems, not problems with one person.

It is wrong for others to blame you and be "miserable" if you seek treatment for depression.
I understand that. My family treats me very well, and I really have no complaints. I am convinced that I am the problem. And if I cannot overcome myself on my own, then there's no help for me. I cannot let everyone down again. The feelings I have when I disappoint someone hurt me a lot.