I've become a recluse too... I'm only 25. I cant stand to be around people. I have 0 friends. It's strange how its happened so gradually that I can't see exactly when I started to change. I dont understand it. I use to be confident and outgoing, center of attention, tons of confidence. Now I'm a social cripple. I can't hold down a job because my personality is so unstable. I'm impulsive and indecisive. People don't understand why I act the way I do either... which of course only complictes things even more. What a mess.