I so understand the frustration of the waiting game Hellion. I had to wait for my SSDI as well as does everyone who applies for federal funding. It can't suck enough.....
I was a very lucky girl though and was approved in 5 months for my SSDI. I have heard horror stories of folks with terrible disabilities waiting years for disability. I don't get it, I don't understand it.
I believe though, that as difficult as it is to wait for a determination, we always end up getting what we need.
I wish you the best Hellion and hope and pray you hear something very very soon!