I used to and sometimes still do struggle with the way I look. I used to be so proud of my rock hard belly but since I've had three children, I not have a stomach that's covered in a bit of flab and A LOT of stretch marks. Most times I won't even let my husband see it or even touch it when we're being close. I have felt so uncomfortable with being a size 12 instead of the size 7 I used to be but as time goes on, I've gotten used to it and sometimes don't even care anym ore (in a good way). Let go of those feelings of insecurity. You are beautiful just the way you are.